Marriage is a crap shoot. You don't know the person you "fell in love with" until you marry them. These days, the Divorce Rate is sky high. It's not easy to make a Marriage work, even with the best of partners.
My sister picked a good husband and father. He's always been hands-on. He's gone to work on a rig half the time, but he's very involved with the kids and around the house when he's home. He knows how to do the kids' hair. He can get them bathed and dressed. He fed them and changed them when they were babies. My sister can actually go out of town for a week and leave them with, *gasp*, their father. No such luck for this poor woman.